Finding the connection to your loved ones
You may have been led here by "coincidence", if you prefer a comfortable term for now. While we know that each of us will also die one day, the daily reminders of our dear ones absence can be more painful for some than others. The circumstances of their departure from us can make the memories of their time with us cloudy at times for some. This does not mean that you feel any less for them, quite the contrary. In fact, I'm thinking it's just the opposite. The holidays when their special magic is missing leave a whole in your heart. Watching children grow and become adults, when one of yours is missing, leaves a special spot in our hearts that no-one else can fill. We miss them daily, weekly, monthly, for ourselves, for our children that are still here and we wonder what it would be like if they were still here. We learn to adjust, yet the loss never ends.
Parents, Lovers, Friends and life-long supporters must leave us as well and while we know that this is a normal event, to us can feel anything but normal. Loosing the support and daily knowing of those that seemed to care most about us can feel like an empty hole. And so we yearn to connect with them, to know that they are okay, to feel once again, their love. We can deny it, but that feels to many of us as though we are denying their lives, and some of us, yours truly included, cannot fathom that. We'd rather face the pain of the loss than to deny they ever lived by ignoring it, once we get past the shock.
Yes, psychic readings can help us get the connection that some need, if they feel we are ready for it. For others, it may be a different knowing that is needed. We need to know ourselves, we need to feel them, to dream about them, to receive a sign, if you will, ourselves, of their involvement in our lives, even after their passing. We may draw on life events and continue learning from them well after they "leave us".
I have a question for you that I do not need the answer to, but you may...
Why is it that we don't think that there is help for us on the other side when those we love so dearly are there as well as our Guides and Angels? Don't you think that, even though they have jobs to do on a higher plane, that they might have a bit of a spark of energy to send us, even if just in the form of an idea or a memory, that might help us in our time of need? Do we really think that we ourselves alone, inspire all that we imagine?
So reach out to them!
Talk to them once in a while.... yes.... they do hear you. And notice those little unusual things that happen, and rather than discounting them as strange, consider that it takes great love and energy to have these things happen so that you have a sign just from them... a gift of love. And if you're more concerned with what others think of you than you are with the sign they are sending you... you have your answer as to why you do not feel them... you just aren't ready, and that, is okay.
Live on... in Love and Reach Out!
Blessings,
Karla
